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LYM Daily

How to Silence Your Inner Negative Nelly (or Nelson)

We all struggle with our inner critic — the voice that says we’re not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough.

If I listen closely I can hear my inner Negative Nelly now. She’s saying, “Don’t make a fool of yourself!”

This inner voice USED to stop me from experiencing new adventures and opportunities to grow.

But not anymore.

Now, when Nelly pops up, I fight back with a powerful process from psychologist Lynn Newman. I ask myself 3 questions:

Question 1: So what?

When I want to tell Nelly, “Just because you said it, doesn’t make it true!”  

Question 2: Who cares?

When I want to tell Nelly “Your criticism doesn’t mean a thing!”

Question 3: Why not?

When I want to tell Nelly ” Hey, I CAN do this. I don’t care what you think!”

YOU are in charge of your life. Not your inner Negative Nelly… or Nelson.

Do you hear Nelly now? Try a question. Did it work? Leave a comment!

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About the Author Marisa Murgatroyd

Marisa is the founder of Live Your Message, where she turns entrepreneurs into Online Superheroes, and the creator of Start With You where she helps people just like you to discover the business they're meant to build, not just the business they can build. At 4’11 and a quarter, she’s called the shortest woman in marketing — and that doesn’t stop her from having huge ideas. She’s the “go to” brand builder for industry luminaries and heavyweights such as Justin Livingston, Callan Rush, Danny Iny, Alexis Neely and Susan Peirce Thompson. Marisa helps entrepreneurs create a business that is authentic and aligned with who they are, to empower them to turn up the dial on their “inner superhero”, so they can be the superhero to their tribe, as well as in their own lives.

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